One day when my neurodivergent foster son was having an aggressive meltdown, I made him a promise 👇🙏”Son, I know you are not a violent person, you have big feelings and even though I don’t know how to help you, I promise you I’ll seek the support to become the secure parent you need.” That day I knew something needed to change. I spent 10 years researching and working on understanding his needs, how to manage my emotions and his emotions, and how to give him better tools. With the direct suppo