Most people think bedsharing is dangerous by default. But here’s what the research actually shows: In most incidents linked to bedsharing, the problem wasn’t simply the act of sharing a bed, it was the conditions. Sofas, excess covers, and unsafe setups are the real risk. And while adult beds often get the blame, over half of SIDS cases happen in cots/cribs. The truth is bedsharing is already happening for many families, whether they talk about it or not. And ignoring it doesn’t happen or condem